Ayanda, wife of South African gospel singer Sfiso Ncwane has advised women to not only pray and cook but to also add twerking to the list of wifely duties.
Wife of gospel singer, Ayanda, who has been married to the gospel star for nine years revealed that it’s important to keep the flame alive.
Speaking with Drum magazine Ayanda stated that faith‚ good food and intimacy plays a vital role in building a successful marriage.
“You pray‚ you cook and you twerk for your husband. He needs to find twerking at home. As much as I’m a wife‚ I can’t afford to stop being a girlfriend. When we close the bedroom door‚ it’s not time to pray. Intimacy is very important. You can’t downplay intimacy‚” she said.
Ayanda added that even though female fans are bound to get carried away- “groupies” are not an issue for her.
No wonder the singer referred to his wife as his ‘Kim Kardashian’ because of their fun filled marriage.
During an interview on CliffCentral The gospel star stated that when he met his wife for the first time in 2002 he knew she was the one.
“The first time I saw my wife‚ I told her‚ ‘I want to marry you’ and she didn’t believe me. She told me that we were too young. Even though she didn’t believe me and I didn’t have money I told her that God will provide.”
Sfiso remembered how he couldn’t afford anything at the time but Ayanda still loved him.
“After we got married things were so bad‚ it was like someone told everyone not to hire me or give me any interviews or anything. I had to stay with my mother-in-law and Ayanda in their house because it was bad.”
He explained that this led him to approach churches in the community for gigs saying this is the reason he gets angry when people label Ayanda as a “gold-digger who is only with him for the fame.”